segunda-feira, 18 de agosto de 2014
Sometimes, the best way to make things work is to just let go.
Give up fighting.
Specially when you're fighting against things that are beyond your control.
When you feel you've reached a summit, and there's nothing more to climb, just sit down and enjoy the view.
(photograph from here)
When you do all you can, you shouldn't feel gilty if things did not work the way you've planned. Or frustrated. It's not up to you anymore.
If it's meant to happen, it will happen.
And if it doesn't happen the way you've dreamed it would, it's just because it wasn't supposed to happen that way.
Deal with it and move on.
Be happy with what you've achieved and let the world flow around you.
And you're wonderful.
And you will never please everyone at once.
If someone did not pay attention to you when you needed them most, don't complain.
They may also be going through a rough patch and they certainly have their own burdens to carry.
And if eventually they tell you they need you, don't turn your back on them just out of sheer spite.
You should only feel frustrated and discouraged when you refuse to do your best.
Enjoy your life.
Don't go chasing after things or people who seem to be running away from you.
Let them go. If they want to be with you, they will meet you half way.
It should be team work you know, to nurture a relationship.
And be happy.
When everything seems to be against you, just stop and relax.
And let yourself go. Just indulge yourself in pleasureable activities.
Do things you really love to do. Distract your mind.
It's probably just your brain that's overloaded. You're thinking too much.
Wait a day or so. Let go. Let yourself go.
You'll see things weren't so dark after all.
It was probably just a phase.
Or perhaps just the damn hormones.